But although resented at the moment, you are bound
still to have satisfaction, and must therefore make the demand.
3. When you believe yourself aggrieved, be silent on the subject,
speak to no one about the matter, and see your friend, who is to act
for you, as soon as possible.
4. Never send a challenge in the first instance, for that precludes
all negotiation. Let your note be in the language of a gentleman, and
let the subject matter of complaint be truly and fairly set forth,
cautiously avoiding attributing to the adverse party any improper
motive.
5. When your second is in full possession of the facts, leave the
whole matter to his judgment, and avoid any consultation with him
unless he seeks it. He has the custody of your honor, and by obeying
him you cannot be compromitted.
6. Let the time of demand upon your adversary after the insult, be as
short as possible, for he has the right to double that time in
replying to you, unless you give him some good reason for your delay.
Each party is entitled to reasonable time, to make the necessary
domestic arrangements, by will or otherwise, before fighting.
7. To a written communication you are entitled to a written reply, and
it is the business of your friend to require it.
Second's Duty Before Challenge Sent.
1. Whenever you are applied to by a friend to act as his second,
before you agree to do so, state distinctly to your principal that you
will be governed only by your own judgment,--that he will not be
consulted after you are in full possession of the facts, unless it
becomes necessary to make or accept the amende honorable, or send a
challenge.
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